Before we get started I do want to mention one key thing you should never ever forget…………………… Great fitting clothes and rocking accessories that you feel comfortable in are more important than being “right on trend”. If you feel you look good you will carry yourself with confidence. If you need a little help creating a style that works great for you visit our Get the Look page on our website we would be happy to help you at no charge. That being said here are the Hottest Trends for fall.

1) Jewelry manufacturers and designers have finally caught on to the fact that not everyone has great layering success. That being said we’ll be seeing a lot of multi-strand necklaces. The beauty here is that they are hassle free, a single purchase and you’ll have a piece that is already layered for you. See our Brooklyn Black Twist

2) Monochromatic will also be big this fall. Tone on tone but you should expect to see a lot of  black on

black as well as plenty of gunmetal which is almost black. Take a quick peek at Gatlinburg one of our favorites.

3) There are still lots of great new statement bracelets available and you will see plenty of  bangles that stack. As with the necklaces already layered these beauties will come already stacked. Howerver the latest twist on the bracelet is that this fall bracelets will now be worn directly over the sleeve and trust me, it looks smart.

4) Although younger women may still want to reach for their silver there are plenty of women in their 30’s, 40’s and 50’s that do still like their gold. But due to the the high cost of  “real” gold today great fashion jewelry available in gold is on the rise. Some amazing pieces can be had for $45.00 or $50.00 dollars.

5) Keep an eye out for “all day sparkle”. The pieces we once reserved for night time will now being worn throughout the entire day. If it is fine for your little black dress then it is also fine for your work suit as well as blue jeans and a t-shirt. Need an example? Selma Sparkle that’s right ladies all day long.

6) Large totes are still big this fall. Unfortunately the large tote doesn’t work great for all body types. But the totes are roomy enough to hold your clutch or a small handbag of absolute essentials. You can just toss it right into the tote and pull it out on the fly. This will allow you to leave your tote in your desk or car allowing you to prevent being swallowed by your bag.

Bonus tip: We will be seeing a lot of gray this fall in clothing. It’s the “NEW” addition to neutrals and it leaves a lot of play room for your accessories. Looking for a clutch in gray? You might like the Hamlet.

This post was written by Nannette Bosh. These tips were recently featured on WTNH Channel 8. As always we welcome you comments. This post was provided courtesy of AskNannette.com

We polled our FBFs as well as the members of OUR FAN PAGE and here is what you had to say:

Anthony M. “I would say three straight times and then a majority of the time.”

Tracy L.  “My boyfriend and I have been together for 2-1/2 years he has and still pays every time…..he won’t let me. He says he makes more than me and he was raised that way. But I make all our meals at home.”

Kristen H. “Why does the guy have to pay all the time it is way too stereotypical.”

Michael S. “It’s not stereotypical…. It’s called being a gentleman. Whatever happened to good old fashion chivalry?”

Dadiv L. “All the time every time is the way my parents raised me in Hawaii! If you want to pay your half then you can offer it, it’s then up to the guy to accept or decline.”

Brian M.  “……..wait…….GUYS are supposed to PAY?”

Penny H. “I don’t think a guy should ever pay, however, I overheard a guy at my gym talking about this, and he said he never pays for the first two weeks, then starts to pay for things if the girl sticks around….I found that an interesting perspective also. I won’t let a guy pay for me because I don’t want to feel as if I owe them anything, birthday presents excluded of course, which goes both ways.”

Erica L. “My rule of thumb; is whoever asks the other out on the date should be the one to pay for the date.”

John H. “I still pay for dinner. Even after 28 years of marriage, I still open doors for her. Hold he hand walking down the street. Chivalry is not dead.

Wayne S. “If they are a gentleman then always plus open doors and flowers!”

Tim W.  “Always.”

Gail V. “What happened to looking after one another…perhaps one is in a better position today than the other is……why is there an expectation? I am seriously interested in this question….thanks.”

Donald B. “The rest of his life! J lol!”

Mark F.  “Around the first 3 times….after that it shouldn’t be an issue….it is fun for a woman to take a guy out too. It makes us feel that we are not just a walking ATM, but someone you like. That said it is all common sense if one person has more money, etc…..”

Ann B. “Til he realizes that the girl makes more than him!”

Constance S. “All (meaning always).”

Donna G.  “ALL the time.J”

Lisa W.  “I guess that it depends how hot he is. (Or if he’s a cheap b****** or not).”

Tj G.  “Whenever HE is the one doing the asking.”

Catherin M.  “With Tj, if he is asking he should pay. (Smart women never have to ask a man out)”

Ken B.  “No question about it he should always pay. I don’t even see where the question comes up….first bring back respectability to the whole dating scene. Second if he asks her to pay half or even accepts $ through down the flag cause there is more bad to come….It’s ok to offer I never took it as an insult though as a good will and intentions that she is not a digger….not on a date no way. MAN-UP!”

Terry W.  “Every time!!!!!!”

Daisy N.  “ALWAYS!”

Keith N.  “Depends how hot she is.”

Kim T.  “All of them.”

Gina V.  “All of them or he is not serious.”

James S. “All of them for at least a month or two…at least, I never even let a girl go near her wallet maybe I am old fashion. ”

Rich  H. “Three tops….and then split of she should pay. It’s almost more of offer as much as actually paying.”

Janet K.  “Are you kidding split it 50/50 unless you are destitute!!!!”

Lenay R. “Old Fashion Is the Way!!!!!…..It’s nice to be treated but once I am dating him he gets spoiled by me as well….. J”

Blakney C.  “100% of the time….forever!”

Devin B.  “All of them!! She can buy you a drink or a shot at the bar but that is still pushing it!! A real gentleman never lets a woman pay! If you can’t afford to take a woman out, then cook for her.”

Kristin T.  “If he asks – he pays, but if you’ve been on three or more, nice to buy a round or take care of the tip as a gesture. At least offer.

Julie B.  “Do something nice for him. I gave my last date a really nice home pedicure after we got done with dinner at his place. Nothing else, he loved it. Really nice pampering for nothin’ and I went home afterwards J Do something priceless.”

Have a great day and thanks for all the responses…….Courtney, Christine, Erin and Nannette.

I read an article about what to do when people question your fashion style and quirks. Quirks and special touches are how you create a personal style, something completely your own. Whether it is a fondness for clothing inspired by a certain era or perhaps a person, a certain detail such as ruffling or a silk flower, or whether it’s an overall feel of a wardrobe – fun, flirty, powerful or professional, the touches you put in to your outfits are the very definition of style. It truly is all about owning your fashion quirks. You need to find something that makes your style unique.

Try to characterize your style in five words or less. If you cannot do it then you may need to rethink some of your wardrobe choices. Think about the image you want to portray to the world and be sure the items in your closet match that image. If you have some quirky fashion signature, really OWN IT! Make it part of your personal style. For example Niecy Nash offers silk flowers and wears one in her hair everywhere she goes. The main thing to remember here is that your overall style should not only be current and flattering it should make YOU happy because that is what clothes and accessories do. They can empower you and bring you joy so have fun with them all.

This blog was written by CarolAnn Edie. If you would like to connect with CarolAnn please visit her on the web at http://www.charismau.com  This post is part of our guest blogger series meant to inspire and motivate women. They do not necessarily reflect the political, religious or other view points of http://www.bangleandclutch.com , Nannette Bosh, Nannette Bosh Inc., AskNannette Bosh, http://www.asknannette.com  or nannettebosh.com. CarolAnn we would love to see you in our new Tri-Color Pendant Necklace http://www.bangleandclutch.com/bags/bid-to-win-play-now-4.html/ Thanks for the inspiration!!!

Think back to when you were a kid with big dreams of your future? Do you remember laying out your life, from how many kids you would have to the mansion you would live in with your prince charming and perfect little children to your dream job of being a doctor, nurse, attorney astronaut or successful entrepreneur? How close did you come to your dream, your passion? Is it your reality? Are you living it?

I remember a few years ago, I questioned what my purpose was. I knew that God had a plan for me, just not sure what it was. I had a long conversation with my husband and the one thing that I remember so vividly is him telling me that I was already living my passion through my work as a small business consultant. He talked about the glow and excitement in my eyes when I talked about the success of my clients. He was right; my passion is helping women explore entrepreneurship. Are you living it?

People often approach me with an all so familiar statement. “I want to start my own business, but I don’t know what I want to do?” My first response was/is, “What is your passion? What is the one thing that you will do for free with much fulfillment?” At that point, the clients sit back, relax and reflect on the things that they enjoy doing. We can then explore the possibilities. Are you the Entrepreneur you dream about? Close your eyes and think about what gets you the most excited about life. Baking yummy sweet treats for family and friends? Helping family and friends with bookkeeping? Sewing pet wear for oversized dogs? The answer is different for each of us. According to the author of the http://www.streetdirectory.com/, there are four things an entrepreneur should focus on:

1. Get crystal clear on the problem you want to solve, and what it’s really like for those who are facing the problem, and apply your creativity in providing a solution.

2. More than just a solution, how will you deliver the solution so that it can most easily be accessed and used by your customers?

3. More than providing and delivering the solution, how will you reach these people so you know the solution exists?

4. More than reaching the people, and delivering the solution, what does your business itself need so that it can continue to improve so that more and more people get help?

Start to imagine! Now, imagine what your life would be like if you spent the majority of your day doing what you love; how awesome is that!!!! Before you become doubtful that it will work, take the passion quiz, http://www.careerknowhow.com/passion/oviewquiz.htm . All too often we put our dreams and our passions on hold for fears of the unknown. Knowing your dream and living it will help you in finding a balance in your life. Are you living your dream? If the answer is still “NO” then I need to ask you “WHY NOT?”

This blog was written by small business super star: Sylvia Browder. If you would like to connect with Sylvia please visit her on the web at http://www.browderconsultinggroup.com/ This post is part of our guest blogger series meant to inspire and motivate women. They do not necessarily reflect the political, religious or other view points of http://www.bangleandclutch.com/ , Nannette Bosh, Nannette Bosh Inc., AskNannette Bosh, http://www.asknannette.com/  or http://www.nannettebosh.com/ . Thanks for bringing us more of your inspiration Sylvia!! We would love to see you wearing one of our necklaces http://www.bangleandclutch.com/jewelry/necklaces.html?p=2!

Let’s face it we all love a fun girls night out now and then, the bond shared in friendship among women is a feeling of sisterhood that cannot be put into words. Given the opportunity would you like to go to a place that offers countless different activities that you may have missed out on through the years or have been unable to squeeze into your busy schedule of tending to your family, your job, your children and everyone else except you? If you dream of meeting lots of dynamic energetic women, and making wonderful new and uplifting friends then there is a place you can go where the door is always open and the women are more than welcoming. This is a place where you will be comforted, waited on, cared for and nurtured. Would you escape your own reality leave your family behind for a few days to share a life changing experience with amazing women from around the country? If the answer is yes, I know just the place for you and I can speak from experience this is Destination Sisterhood.

Where will you go to meet all of your new sisters and recharge your battery?  Joan Lunden’s-  Camp Reveille. Ladies this might be a camp setting but I assure you it is not “camping”.  This is a retreat where you and 149 of your sisters will be pampered and waited on by a staff of 85 (not including Joan and her family). You’ll relax, unwind, get inspired, make jewelry, paint pottery, workout, laugh, cry, hang by the fire, dance, sing, go boating, water ski, get facials, be massaged, jump-start your health, eat delicious food, drink wine and never ever have to clean up. You can do all of this and more if you so choose or you can sit quietly and take in the peaceful surroundings and the beauty of the lake.

You will feel like a kid again and form many new wonderful friendships bonding with women you otherwise would have never known. This experience will truly change your life. You will literally wish you didn’t have to return home. However when you do arrive home you will be refreshed, rejuvenated, recharged, energized, focused and motivated to take charge of your life as well as ready to take the steps you will need to do so. Nothing this special is free, so I suggest you start saving a little bit each week to make this dream weekend your reality it will be worth every penny.

Joan was the Keynote Speaker at the 2010 Greater Hartford Women’s Conference. I would like to thank her and her family, the staff and all of my sisters for the most amazing memorable weekend.Photos and videos coming soon…………… This blog post was written by Nannette Bosh owner of http://www.BangleandClutch.com and provided courtesy of  http://www.asknannette.com

There seems to be a consistent theme running about. Entrepreneurs especially women are lacking the support from those closest to them. Being told things such as; “Get a real job”, “Stop playing business” or worse yet “Who do you think YOU are”? Or even get the silent treatment. I am wondering at this point what counts as a “real job” anyway today? There is no loyalty or security these days at a “real job”. To make matters worse these entrepreneurs are putting on a happy face to the rest of the world as though everything is great. Burning the candle at both ends will only hurt you in the long run. How do I know? It’s happened to me.

Have you ever had your significant other ask you “How was your day?” and you just dread the question after a while? Ever have an acquaintance ask how is business going and you say everything is great meanwhile clients are lacking and you are stressing over where you are going? What you are doing and why? Do you feel awful because your family members do not even acknowledge you have a business? They think it is just a hobby. If these are your supporters no need to worry about having enemies. What happened to adventure, freedom and your vision of sharing your gifts with others to create a better world? It is not gone just lost in all the mind chatter you have going on included with all the negativity from those you thought would be your biggest cheerleaders. Here are some tips to get you back on tract.

1. Start your day by reading a great autobiography or anything that will inspire you. Get great quotes to your inbox.

2. Twenty minutes of exercise.

3. Listen to others when they are speaking to you. Nothing brings us all back to the moment and engages us in life more than listening.

4. Ask yourself what your likes, dislikes, passions and desires are. DO NOT let others influence your answers.

5. Pushing past your boundaries, getting uncomfortable and being OK with it.

6. Figure out what it is that makes you uncomfortable. If meeting new people makes you feel uncomfortable then challenge yourself to meet someone new every week. Great places to do that are on Twitter and Facebook.

7. Do not judge yourself because you are afraid or feel like you should have everything under control.

8. Remember it is ok to take baby steps to change the situation that prevents becoming overwhelmed.

9. Ignoring the mind chatter and the comments from others allowing you to enjoy yourself and be more powerful.

10.  Be determined, passionate and driven towards your goals.

Bonus tip: keep open communication with those that are your true supporters and closest to you!!!!! This blog post was written by Tricia Dycka, if you would like to connect with Tricia visit her website http://triciadycka.com  This post is part of our guest blogger series meant to inspire and motivate women. They do not necessarily reflect the political, religious or other view points of Nannette Bosh http://www.bangleandclutch.com , Nannette Bosh Inc., http://www.asknannette.com , AskNannette or http://www.nannettebosh.com . We think our Laguna Hexagonal Drop earrings would look fantastic on Tricia. Not to worry we won’t let the dream squashers bring us down, thanks for the inspiration!

As a young girl I knew I was destined for something “BIG”; the problem was I didn’t know what that something would be. I was born and raised in a small town in North Dakota and to this day my ND roots are the foundation for my belief system, not only my personal life beliefs but my business beliefs as well. Like many of you I struggled to find a path and a direction for myself. I knew I wanted to make a difference in the world and not just any type of difference, but something unique, something that represented me and something BIG!

It took me a while to find that balance we all crave between personal life and work; capturing the clarity and purpose I had been searching for. Once I decided to take a long hard look at what might be holding me back, I discovered that many of the obstacles were simply ones I had erected myself. With the ability to find ways to scale those obstacles and break down barriers; I found myself flourishing both on a personal level and on a business level. I found myself taking risks I thought I would never be brave enough to take, forcing myself to leave my comfort zone, and eventually found myself growing into an independent woman AND a successful business woman. Want to know the best part? I now have built an amazing business that I am proud of because it has allowed me to set my own rules and I can work from anywhere in the world.

A key foundation in my life as well as in my business is the belief in the need to nurture and grow relationships and remain connected. Given the advancement of technology, high touch relationships grow increasingly harder to incorporate, but even more essential. It is the solid base of these relationships that has allowed me to carve my path out of the static daily life and help others do the same. Life is incredibly predictable; it will change on whim, it will surprise you daily and it will force you to adapt and fly. It is this idea of stretching ourselves and of being uncomfortable that uncovers our greatest growth.

So put yourself out there and embrace the twists and turns that you may have to encounter on your path. You might be surprised at where they lead! This post was written by Chelsea Moser. If you would like to connect with her please visit her on the web at http://www.chelseamoser.com. We think Chelsea would look fantastic wearing our Bangle Bid to Win Carmel Necklace. This post is part of our guest blogger series meant to inspire and motivate women. They do not necessarily reflect the political, religious or other view points of http://www.bangleandclutch.com , Nannette Bosh, Nannette Bosh Inc., AskNannette Bosh, http://www.asknannette.com  or http://www.nannettebosh.com .

If you haven’t heard of Dwell magazine, I think it’s time you do.  If you’re into hip, chic and eco home style, this is the publication for you. Recently at a tradeshow I saw some great eco-friendly providers. I thought I’d share with you some of the green products of note at this year’s Dwell on Design Home Show.  Root pouch made up entirely of recycled bottles, for plants, flowers, gardens, etc.  From large rooftop gardens to hanging your herb garden on your kitchen wall they’ve got something for you.  Easy to install, earth friendly affordable and making it simple to have a garden regardless of your space.  Environment furniture sophisticated, chic and super eco-furnishings.  It’s hot!

One of the coolest items I saw at the show was by Eco Arbor designs.  Dreading building a deck in your back yard or roof top?  Dread no more!  Eco Arbor makes fabulous, green, wood tiles that you lay in a snap to create a deck space.  Completely sustainable woods, colors and styles (some have LED lights in them for pathways) you can have a brand new, eco-friendly area in just a few minutes!  Reclaimed space custom built and delivered living spaces.  Way stylish and can be anything from a guest house or work space to being a primary residence (if you live light!)  These homes are so unique that you can customize these pre-fab dwellings with modern kitchens, vintage bathrooms and decorate with more green furniture.

How about Nook sleep system a non-toxic, environmentally sound and healthier mattress for babies? Their innovative pebble design made with eucalyptus fibers is soft and allows air flow to keep baby comfy and sound asleep all night long.  Ideapaint makes any surface a fry erase surface with Idea Paint! For school, office or even at home, make every space a creative one with their special paint.  The modern doll houses for kids with discerning taste try Brinca Dada Eco dolls houses with mega style and flare.

Still not convinced? Check out Greg Fleishman Studios -architect designer, artist and inventor’s work is largely informed by geometry and functionality.  From shade, shelter structures to furniture as well as kids playgrounds and even vehicles, these wood structures will blow your mind!  Then there is also the Eis Studio – making all sorts of functionally decorative goodies but my favorite is their indoor and outdoor pebble seating.  They’re a full on design studio so from interesting furnishings to a whole new eco-house, they can help!

This blog post was written by Carolyn Scott. For more information, visit you can visit Carolyn’s at  Healthy Voyager  This post is part of our guest blogger series meant to inspire and motivate women. They do not necessarily reflect the political, religious or other view points of : http://www.bangleandclutch.com , http://www.nannettebosh.com Nannette Bosh, Nannette Bosh Inc., AskNannette Bosh, http://www.asknannette.com We would love to see Carolyn wearing our Silver Creek Bangle. Thanks Carolyn!!!!

Underneath everything in human experience the pain, the tragedy, the heartache, the perceived unfairness at the bottom line always turns out to reveal love. This is because the only thing that really exists between people underneath their emotional defense systems is love.  Our defense systems are a way to shield us from the pain of believing we don’t have it.  Think about the last time you got angry at someone.  Perhaps you felt they were inconsiderate of you, or were disrespectful of you, or took something that mattered to you away from you.  If you really knew, in that moment, that you are fully loved and cared about, wouldn’t that chance that angry feeling?  And if because of knowing that you are fully loved and cared for, you began relating to your friend or significant other out of love and compassion, instead of anger, do you think that would change either their behavior toward you, or your perception of their behavior?

Underneath pain is love.  When you are grieving because someone you love has died, underneath the grieving is love for them.  When people rose up as a community after 9/11 occurred, what they were feeling was love for all of the people who died.  But why does it take a catastrophe for us to feel love for each other?  Often we don’t really acknowledge how much we love someone until they are seriously ill and/or die.  Why is that?  The feeling of love is very intense when we really acknowledge the fullness of how we feel.  Being able to feel the intensity of how much we actually do love is an evolving process. It is generally in direct opposition to aspects of our defended self.  The intensity of our love can feel like an expansion of the self that goes further out than we have the ability to stretch.  So we most often divert that feeling into our defenses, rather than admit what it really is.  It can also feel like breaking open, when vulnerable emotions break through the defenses, dissolving us into tears.  You could say that is the meaning of a broken heart.  The heart breaks open, so that the emotions that have been trapped by the rigidity of the defenses can rush out.  When a loved one dies, we cry for the pain and loss, rather than embrace the intense love we feel for them, right now, even with their passing.  The depth and intensity of our feelings are often more easily diverted to hate or pain than to open ourselves up to the intense vulnerability of love, which cuts through all of our defenses, false personas and worlds.

This blog post was written by Jane Ilene Cohen. Like to read more from Jane’s Transformational Teachings you can connect with her on her blog @ http://blog.janecohencounseling.com/ This post is part of our guest blogger series meant to inspire and motivate women. They do not necessarily reflect the political, religious or other view points of http://www.bangleandclutch.com , Nannette Bosh, Nannette Bosh Inc., AskNannette Bosh, http://www.asknannette.com  or http://www.nannettebosh.com .  We would love to see Jane wearing our Palmetto Peacock Feather Necklace. Thanks Jane!!!!

1. Practice Etiquette – You will be surprised how far the words, please, and thank you will take you. Practicing common courtesies will set you apart from the competition. In business, it could mean the difference of winning the contract or not, in your personal life it could make the difference in the type of people you attract.

2. Take Care of Yourself – You can’t take care of anyone else until you take care of yourself. You can’t be a good mother, wife, student and an effective business person without good health, nourish your body, get plenty of rest and sleep.

3. Love Yourself – You have to love yourself before someone else will. Be your own best friend. Accept you for who you are. Acknowledge your strengths and work on your weaknesses.

4. Gain Control of Your Finances – Read, get a coach if need be. There are plenty of books out that can help you understand finances. Rich Dad-Poor Dad, Suze Orman. Being in control of your finances empowers you! Create your own economy!

5. Create the Life You Want – Whatever you talk about most is what you attract. Want to change your life, change your words. Create a story board of the life you want, write it down, set goals. You have what you say!

6. Encourage Other Women – Be excited about the success of another sister, your time will come. Strengthen each other, when one is hurt we all hurt. The more you give the more you get in return.

7. Be an Original – Each and every one of us is unique we all have different talents and gifts. Do you, embrace your uniqueness and share what you have with the world.  Hold true to your beliefs and values.

8. Set the Standard – Always give and do your best. You never know who is watching, you are either influencing or being influenced

9. Tell the Truth and Keep Your Promises – Integrity is a character trait that is highly respected. Do what you say and say what you do. Plain and simple, you don’t have to exaggerate, as a matter of fact under promise and overtly.

10. Because I am an Extraordinary Woman –Thank you for allowing me this opportunity to share and encourage you. The information I shared with you is what I live my life by (sometimes I fall short). However, I believe by encouraging you I am also encouraging myself, and I am held accountable. Because you are reading this you are an EXTRAORDINARY WOMAN.

This blog post was written by Walethia Aquil. This post is part of our guest blogger series meant to inspire and motivate women. They do not necessarily reflect the political, religious or other view points of http://www.bangleandclutch.com , Nannette Bosh, Nannette Bosh Inc., AskNannette Bosh, http://www.asknannette.com or http://www.nannettebosh.com . Walethia would like to invite you to claim your Free Instant access to Achieving Success with Grace and Charm Business Etiquette e-course, when you visit http://www.graceandcharm.com You will learn the ins and outs of using proper etiquette, so that you can boost your confidence, transform your life and accelerate your success. And to go deeper with how etiquette and a polished image can increase your net worth check out The Grace and Charm Success System+. We would love to see Walethia wearing our Bangle and Clutch Exclusive necklaces. http://www.bangleandclutch.com/exclusives.html/